Certain songs .......

Heartbreaks and promises

I've had more than my share

I'm tired of giving my love

And getting nowhere, nowhere

What I need is somebody

Who really cares

I really need a lover

I lover that wants to be there

It's been so long since

I touched a wanting hand

I can't put my love on the line

That I hope you'll understand

So baby if you want me

You've got to show me love

Words are so easy to say, oh ahh

You've got to show me love

I'm tired of getting caught up

In those one night affairs

What I really need is somebody

Who will always be there

Don't you promise me the world

All that I've already heard

This time around for me baby

Actions speak louder than words

If you're looking for devotion

Talk to me

Come with your heart in your hands

Because my love is guaranteed

Back to basics

So, I've thrown myself into several new projects for the past few days,

and I've been finding great satisfaction in going back to the strongest side of me.

It's good to get up really early in the morning to jump in my meditation room,

light a white candle, and listen to my Norah Jones while 

I get really picky about what inspirational book I'll be taking to bed at night.

Yes, I admit it. I can only keep some sort of 'balance' when I keep on reading 'self-help' books.

So far, it's the best way I found to understand the world, 

accept my faults, forgive myself and forget others..

Starting something new is like falling in love again.

And talking about love, ... I'm not in a hurry. 

I have a life outside of my feelings.

There's no desperation here, but rather, desire! 

The desire to see if he's out there.......

To my girls out there!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache!

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve,
then hell no, you can't be 'friends.' 

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you!

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up!

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Never borrow someone else's man.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. 

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships.

Any relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.

Don't commit to a man who doesn't want to give you the love that you need. 

Operation Self-Esteem, Day 2

I'm trying - again - to be free of pre-established ideas regarding my relationships.

Trying to expand peace of mind with my inner stillness.

Trying to not give up of all the hope for a stable relationship.

Trying to let go.  ...  and let God.

Sunny Disposition

Boca is one of those cities people love to hate. 

Maybe it’s the amount of retired people, maybe it's the snobbish and wealthy.

But when we have days like the one we had today, and it’s close to 80° in the beginning of April, 

it’s hard for me to find reasons to complain...

I celebrated with a cold beer, and a very colorful summer dress.

Happy Spring Days, everyone!