Monday, April 4, 2011

To my girls out there!



If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache!
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve,
then hell no, you can't be 'friends.' 
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you!
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up!
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Never borrow someone else's man.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs. 
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships.
Any relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals.
Don't commit to a man who doesn't want to give you the love that you need.